Just about everyone I know can text, and their fingers were really flying over the holidays. I was invited to parties, given travel updates, had requests to come into the next room, saw a few photos, was wished a Happy Birthday, and even asked for addresses to finish up Christmas cards.
Just when is all this texting too much and how many LOL’s can we take during any given day?
Here is my take on it:
- If you really want me to come to your last minute party, please pick up the phone and let me hear your voice.
- Thanks for the travel updates – that saved a phone call.
- I missed the text to come to the next room.
- Loved seeing the photos.
- Thanks for my Birthday wishes!
- Texting addresses? No way.
- Did I mention someone asked me how the wedding was? I can’t describe the dress, the food, and the fun in a line or two.
I know I mentioned everyone texts – except my Mom. Well, we can text her, but she just doesn’t want to take the time to reciprocate. Mom gets miffed at my brother who rarely calls, but sends her text updates.
So if I put on my own Mom hat on, then let me say that texting has its place and can be an efficient way to communicate, but texting in business relationships or with a client is probably not a good idea.
My friend Lydia, the author of “Manners that Sell” said, “what a shame to lose the personal touch with only email and texting”.
So I challenge you to freshen up your relationships and use your phone in 2012 for what it was originally designed for – voice communication.
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